Showing posts with label Mildred. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Mildred. Show all posts

Friday, February 12, 2016

Episode 20 - January 1999 - Life in Oak Springs, the Homeplace


Life in Oak Springs, the Homeplace
January 1999


This series of posts on each Friday, moving forward during 2016 will continue the stories of “The Homeplace Saga” series of family saga, historical fiction families in the area of Oak Springs following the novel “Christmas at the Homeplace,” which ended as 1997 began. Earlier, we have seen the community move from January 1997 through December 1998. We are now in January of 1999, in episodic serial format…



Episode 20 - Karen visited Virginia

Karen arrived at the nursing home about a half hour before time for Virginia to have her supper, and Virginia was pleased to have a visitor. Over the years, Karen and Virginia had many long and pleasant conversations, including a number with ‘not so pleasant’ subjects. Karen hoped Virginia was able to remember and speak about years gone by.

Karen: “Jennifer and I were looking at the census reports for 1920 and noticed that it listed an older sister of Mom’s, named Ethel. Did she die? I don’t remember her ever being mentioned.”

Virginia: “No. She didn’t die. She went away, and never came back. Kind of like your sister, Beverly. When she graduated from high school, she wanted to be on Broadway. Her drama coach in high school praised her work too much. In her mind, she was ready to be a pro, and that was the place to do it.

Karen: “What did Joe and Beth, her parents, think about that?”

Virginia: “Oh, they thought that was an awful thing to want to do. They tried to talk her out of it.”

Karen: “How was she able to go, then?”

Virginia: “Well, her coach actually had connections on Broadway, in New York City. He said he knew a place she could stay, and some people she could talk to, to ‘try-out’ for parts in their plays.”

Karen: “Did he offer to pay her way?”

Virginia: “No. But somebody did. None of us knew for sure, but we suspected it might have been her Grandpa, William. He and Charlotte only had the one son, no daughters. When Joe and Beth first had a daughter, Ethel, he really doted over her. She was like a princess to him, it seemed. Mildred and I were much younger, of course, so our view may have been skewed… but that was how we saw it. Mildred was very jealous, needless to say, of the attention Ethel got, and she got only second-hand, left-over, second-grade praise, from him.”

Karen: “That is certainly interesting. You say they never heard from her again?”

Virginia: “Not that I knew of. Mildred never mentioned her again, not once, after Ethel left, that I heard about.”

Karen: “If I counted right, Ethel graduated high school, and left town, in 1929, is that right?”

Virginia: “Yes. That was an awful time. Everyone was so happy that summer. Then Ethel actually left, her parents were upset; Mildred didn’t want to talk about it. Then, in the fall, the stock market crashed. We were afraid our family would lose the family real estate business. With all that going on, I certainly didn’t have any time to think about Ethel, or much else, for that matter. We survived, but those were very tough times, for quite a few years.”

Karen sensed that those memories were upsetting to Virginia, and it was time to close this conversation. Before she left, she had one last question.

Karen: “Jennifer came across one of William’s journals where he mentions a “Snooki” - does that name mean anything to you?”

Virginia: “Oh, yes. "Snooki." That was his ‘special name’ for Ethel!”

Virginia had almost spat out the name “Snooki” it seemed to Karen. She closed her conversation with Virginia not wanting to upset her more.

Karen: “Thank you, so much, Virginia. It is about time for your supper. I appreciate you talking to me. We’ll talk again, another day.”



[To be continued - next Friday]



"May everyone have a homeplace, if only in your mind."


Dr. Bill  ;-)


Saturday, July 13, 2013

Surname Saturday - Bevins Family Line


Surname Saturday
Bevins Family Line


[This blogging exercise is part of the 'reverse research' for the major, and minor, characters in the forthcoming books in The Homeplace Series]

I began this Surname Saturday exercise on April 17, 2010, with BEVINS 1 and and next six posts were all related to taking the McDONALD family line, the maternal line, back to the earliest settlement in the Oak Creek valley in 1833.

In the meantime, in creating the history of the valley, from the four founding families and other early arrivals, much more has been learned of their inter-relationships and how these developed, through the Civil War period. I have recently, to provide context for Jennifer BEVINS' family history searches, in "Christmas at the Homeplace," currently, and "The Homeplace Threatened" in the future, as well as building the content of the developmental Wiki, expanded the connection of the 'past with the present' on a family level for The Homeplace Series, as a whole. In coming weeks in this series, more of the family surnames, and relationships, will be shared.

Frank and Mildred (McDONALD) BEVINS were the subjects of BEVINS 1 along with their four children, the primary characters in "Back to the Homeplace" with the unusual video will left by Mildred on her passing in last 1986. Subsequent McDONALD posts followed her line back to Henry and Laura McDONALD of the founding families. Although not as direct by surname, Frank's ancestry goes back to the founding families, as well, as will be recorded, briefly, below.

Ora B. and Sarah Jane (WATERS) BEVINS had one child, possibly others:

1. Franklin (Frank) Leonard BEVINS, born 9 Aug 1917, in Oak Springs, MO


Howard and Myrtle (TRUESDALE) BEVINS had one child, possibly others:

1. Ora B. BEVINS, born 1891, Oak Springs, MO


Lewis and Caroline (McDONALD) TRUESDALE had two children, possibly others:

1. James (Jimmie) TRUESDALE, born 5 Feb 1866, Oak Springs, MO

2. Myrtle TRUESDALE, born 1868, Oak Springs, MO


Lewis TRUESDALE was the son of Hugh and Victoria (PATTON) TRUESDALE, each of whom was an original settler in the Oak Creek Valley, the first couple to be married in the valley.


Caroline McDONALD was the oldest daughter of Harry and Sarah (BALDRIDGE) McDONALD, each of whom was also an original settler, as young children, in the Oak Creek Valley [See McDONALD 3, 4, and 5]



"May each of us have a Homeplace to hold onto, if only in our minds."

Bill  ;-)



Saturday, May 21, 2011

Surname Saturday - GATES



Surname Saturday - GATES

This is a guest post by Karen BEVINS WINSLOW (a fictitious character in "Back to the Homeplace"). Karen is the oldest daughter of Frank and Mildred (MCDONALD) BEVINS, one of their four children. These four siblings and their families are the major characters of the novel: Back to the Homeplace. [This blogging exercise is a part of the research for the upcoming novel, "The Homeplace Revisited" by William Leverne Smith]

The Paul and Beverly (BEVINS) GATES family

Paul GATES was born on 17 Mar 1945 in Jackson, Mississippi. He graduated from Mississippi State University with a degree in Mechanical Engineering in 1968. From 1968 through 1986 he worked for several firms doing engineering work.  He has worked with the Bevins Trust in Oak Springs since 1987.

Beverly BEVINS was born 14 Apr 1941 near Oak Springs, Missouri, the daughter of Frank and Mildred (MCDONALD) BEVINS. Beverly graduated from Oak Springs High School in the Class of 1959 and immediately moved to Jackson, Mississippi. There she was engaged in clerical and secretarial employment.

Paul and Beverly (BEVINS) GATES were married in Jackson, Mississippi in June of 1977.


Paul and Beverly GATES had two children:

1. Scott GATES, born 1978 in Jackson, Mississippi

2. Heather GATES, born in 1982 in Jackson, Mississippi

Paul GATES has as daughter, Sheila GATES, born in Jackson, Mississippi, in 1968, to a previous marriage. She moved to Oak Springs with Paul and Beverly and their children in 1987.

Paul and Beverly were divorced in 1988.

Beverly subsequently returned to Jackson, and married Winston T. THESHOLD, III - 'Winnie' - in 1991.


Families are Forever!  ;-)